Give the outside of the house, bedroom, or special date area a "heart attack". Cover the area in paper hearts with special compliments for your special person. Leave it for a surprise!
At night, bring her to a parking lot near where you met....outside her school or work....or where you once had a memorable date. Open the car doors, slip in a CD of slow songs and just dance together in the parking lot alone. Don't care if anyone drives by or says anything...just dance and reminisce together.
Use an anti-fog liquid, write a love note with a cotton swab on the bathroom mirror so it shows up when your wife comes out of the shower.
Let your spouse know you appreciate them. Make your actions match your words and vice verse. Making their lunch shows them love, but don't forgot to use the words. Let them know you appreciate them as often as you can. Not everything they do requires thanks daily, but perhaps at least once or twice a month is necessary. You will be amazed how much they do for you that you don't even realize.
Keep a journal for the time that you are apart. Put in it how you missed them and what made you think of them during the day, your dreams, etc. At the end of your time apart give it to them and let them read what you wrote.
Offer to cut his/her hair (that is if you are good at it) and when cutting the bangs get pretty close to him/her and out of nowhere give a good kiss.
Go rollerskating and hold hands.
If you go on a business trip for an extended period of time, send her cards timed to arrive the beginning, middle, and end of your trip.
Tell her that she is the best thing that has ever happened to you in your entire life!
Get her a dozen roses with one of them being fake, tell her you'll love her till the last rose dies.
Give her 10 red roses and 2 white ones in the middle with a note that reads "You will never stand alone."
Massage their shoulders whenever you get a chance.
Have a chocolate tasting session to determine which company makes the best chocolate.
Go to the drive in movies often, take blankets outside and enjoy the time together.
Pick up your significant other, blind fold him/her and take them skydiving! Trust me, he/she will love it! I took my ex-boyfriend for his 23rd birthday, and no one has been able to top that!!
Prepare a dinner with multiple courses. Take your love to a street that's rather busy and make sure you both dress in best. Set up a folding table, and chairs and pull out candles. Treat her with old fashioned courtesy. Have friends drive by and become a waiter for the moment-each friend bringing a different coarse- pay no attention to the funny looks, honks, etc.
Caring is not enough! You should aware for what she needs anytime without her needing to say it to you. It can be a surprise too, cause she will feel that you know her well.
Take a Jello bath together.
Get dressed up and drive around counting restaurants. Eat at the 100th one you find. You may end up someplace fancy, or at McDonald's. It will be fun because you are both in for a surprise!
Create a scavenger hunt for your love using clues that are inside jokes to only the two of you.
Make a personal calendar for your partner with a photo of yourself on it for each month. This is something that they can keep on their desk as a constant reminder of you.
Play footsies.
Buy her a vase with eleven roses in it and one small mirror attached to a stem or stick (your choice). Present it to her when she least expects it and she will smile and ask whats the mirror for. You then tell her when she wants to see that 12th rose to look in the mirror and it will always be there. Trust me they love it.
Light candles in the bedroom, spread rose petals across the bed, then carry her into bed and make passionate love to her...
Swing together on a playground.
The day of your date send a message to the person that says you can't make it. About an hour after your date was suppose to begin place a message in a bottle, a single red rose and a map that has a place to meet on the doorstep ring the doorbell and run to your car and go to the place you want to meet. Their have a dinner and radio ready. eat and then dance the night away.
Join him in his favorite sports like hunting and hide from him, when his about to give up, go to his back and hug him gently getting tightly step by step then run your finger tips to his body softly and start caressing his body and then gently kiss his neck and back! Men loved to be kissed from behind.
Write a song for your partner and go to a recording studio and have it put on a CD for her. Make up a CD cover with pictures of you together and give it to her! This avoids the awkwardness of singing to her in person, but you'll still receive the same reaction and rewards.
Take a ride to a secluded beach at sunset and park your car as close to the sand as possible. Stretch a big blanket over the sand and lay down together as the warm summer night breeze comes in, and the stars come out, all while listening to your favorite love song CD in your car stereo.
Put a note in a helium balloon with no string, and make your partner wait until it comes down from your ceiling to read it.
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